Hello Friends,
We all know the classic holiday image: the perfect decorations, the holiday feast cooked to perfection and laid out aesthetically, the family all gathered together joyfully sharing in the magic of the season, and everyone receiving the perfect gift. It is a nice picture but creates a need for holiday perfectionism when, in reality, there is no such thing as a perfect holiday.
Not even the holidays that seem perfect on social media are really perfect. A photo of a “perfect” holiday dinner often hides stress, chaos, and who knows what else going on behind the scenes. The holidays are best when you can spend them being present and relaxed with those you love. Not driving yourself crazy over whether you have enough side dishes.
So, to help you do exactly that, here are three practical steps to let go of the need for holiday perfectionism and embrace being present with those you love instead.
- Focus on What Matters Most – Ask yourself what is most important to you over the holidays. Is it spending time with those you love, your favourite holiday tradition, or giving back to those in need? Whatever your answer, find ways to dedicate more time and energy to that this holiday season.
- Simplify your To-Do List – You don’t want to spend the whole holiday making sure everything is perfect and miss what really matters. Often, the holiday magic is held in small moments. Like putting the star on the tree or singing a favourite Christmas song. If you are too busy worrying about fulfilling your holiday perfectionism, you will miss the true magic of the holidays.
- Embrace Imperfections – Almost all of my favourite holiday memories stem from some sort of imperfect moment. The imperfections are what make the holidays unique and special each year. They are often the most memorable moments and the ones you will talk about for years to come.
At the end of the day, social media is all a highlight reel. So, stop comparing yourself to other people’s “perfect holidays” and start being present in the moments happening around you. After all, holiday mishaps are stories to tell for years to come, and memories you can cherish with your loved ones long after the turkey has been eaten and the decorations have been taken down. An Instagram story only lasts 24 hours, but memories from being present with the people you love last forever.
Until Tomorrow, My Friends!
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